Looking beyond 65. On This Thanksgiving Day

 Looking beyond 65. On This Thanksgiving Day 

 

If someone had informed me at age 25 how quickly the years would pass until my 65th birthday, I would have been skeptical. With December 29th approaching—and March 13th soon after for Karen—we both find ourselves reflecting on the passage of time, pondering how swiftly it seems to have gone. 

Our four children—two in their thirties and two in their late twenties—appear to have accelerated the passage of time, leading us swiftly to the present moment. 

Individuals frequently engage in reflection upon their personal experiences and significant milestones, often noting the rapid passage of time and considering the factors that have contributed to their current situation. Nonetheless, after a brief period of introspection, most tend to proceed with their routine activities. 

Like many others, Karen and I did not set aside savings for retirement, prioritizing the financial security of our children and grandchildren. As a result, we are now managing debt while navigating the implications retirement brings for our lifestyle and planning for necessary adjustments. 

Our circumstances have changed significantly since 1989, when we were a young couple residing in the Village in Toronto. At that time, we lived in a one-bedroom apartment at 437 Jarvis Street. Karen was a teacher with Metro Separate at Senor Santo Christo School, while I worked as a delivery driver, operating a five-ton truck for NDL Ontario (now known as McKesson Canada) along Eglinton West. While writing freelance stories to supplement what income I could. 

Over the years, we witnessed our four children mature into adults and eventually embark on their own journeys, much as we once did. As time has passed and we have become grandparents, we reflect fondly on these experiences. True fulfillment in life is not measured by material possessions, wealth, or status. Rather, it is found in living each day to its fullest potential, embracing every moment as if it were your last. 

Many individuals become caught in cycles of longing and aspiration. Our findings indicate that such goals often yield little substantive value, leaving one disillusioned when the sought-after rewards prove to be merely superficial, serving primarily as symbols of status rather than sources of genuine fulfillment. 

Today marks Thanksgiving Day 2025, which we view not merely as a holiday but as an opportunity for renewal. Karen and I remain committed to supporting others in enhancing their lives through self-sufficiency and minimalist living. Through our written blogs, instructional videos, and various related activities, we aim to provide practical guidance and inspiration to individuals of all ages.  

 Reflecting on our lives, we extend our sincere gratitude. We appreciate all who have contributed to our journey by bringing us together, sharing moments of joy and sorrow, and encouraging new experiences. Your presence has enriched our lives, and we look forward to continuing this meaningful connection as time progresses.